The Dangerous Passion: Why Jealousy Is As Necessary As Love and Sex pdf

大卫迈克尔巴斯（生于 1953 年 4 月 14 日）是德克萨斯大学奥斯汀分校的美国进化心理学家，研究人类在择偶方面的性别差异。他被认为是进化心理学的创始人之一。 巴斯于 1981 年在加州大学伯克利分校获得心理学博士学位。在成为德克萨斯大学教授之前，他曾在哈佛大学担任助理教授四年，并在密歇根大学担任教授十一年。 他研究的主要主题包括男性交配策略、两性冲突、社会地位、社会声誉、声望、嫉妒情绪、凶杀、反凶杀防御，以及最近的跟踪。所有这些都是从进化的角度来处理的。巴斯是 200 多篇科学文章的作者，并获得了许多奖项，包括 1988 年的 APA 杰出科学奖，以表彰其对心理学的早期职业贡献，以及 1990 年的 APA G. Stanley Hall Lectureship。 他还是《进化心理学：心灵的新科学》的作者，其第四版于 2011 年出版。2005 年，巴斯编辑了参考书《进化心理学手册》。他的最新著作是《当男人行为不端：性欺骗、骚扰和攻击的隐藏根源》。 巴斯在美国参与了广泛的跨文化研究合作和讲座。

The Dangerous Passion: Why Jealousy Is As Necessary As Love and Sex pdf 大卫迈克尔巴斯

Why do men and women cheat on each other? How do men really feel when their partners have sex with other men? What worries women more -- men who turn to other women for love or men who simply want sexual variety in their lives? Can the jealousy husbands and wives experience over real or imagined infidelities be cured? Should it be? In this surprising and engaging exploration of men's and women's darker passions, David Buss, acclaimed author of "The Evolution of Desire," reveals that both men and women are actually designed for jealousy. Drawing on experiments, surveys, and interviews conducted in thirty-seven countries on six continents, as well as insights from recent discoveries in biology, anthropology, and psychology, Buss discovers that the evolutionary origins of our sexual desires still shape our passions today. According to Buss, more men than women want to have sex with multiple partners. Furthermore, women who cheat on their husbands do so when they are most likely to conceive, but have sex with their spouses when they are least likely to conceive. These findings show that evolutionary tendencies to acquire better genes through different partners still lurk beneath modern sexual behavior. To counteract these desires to stray -- and to strengthen the bonds between partners -- jealousy evolved as an early detection system of infidelity in the ancient and mysterious ritual of mating. Buss takes us on a fascinating journey through many cultures, from pre-historic to the present, to show the profound evolutionary effect jealousy has had on all of us. Only with a healthy balance of jealousy and trust can we be certain of a mate's commitment, devotion, and true love.